How To Be A Good Neighbor . . .

Community Renewal wishes you happy Good Neighbor Day!

As you may know, recently, the Surgeon General, Dr. Vivek Murthy, declared a public health crisis surrounding loneliness, isolation, and disconnection. Dr. Murthy laid out a plan to combat the “Epidemic of Loneliness” but stressed that a national strategy cannot succeed without cultivating a culture of connection. Which is EXACTLY what we do at CRCA!

Community Renewal has been at the forefront of creating connected and caring communities for over 30 years, and we are grateful that this issue has finally become a part of a nationwide, mainstream conversation. 

At CRCA, we use the phrase “intentional caring.” Intentional caring (vs. random acts of kindness) refers to a deliberate and purposeful act of showing care, concern, and compassion toward others. It involves making a conscious effort to support, help, or uplift someone, often with a specific goal in mind, rather than just doing so casually or by chance. 

In the spirit of National Neighbor Day, here are ten, simple yet effective ways to practice intentional caring in your neighborhood: 

  1. Introduce Yourself: Start by introducing yourself to your neighbors. A friendly “hello” and a warm smile can go a long way in breaking the ice and setting the stage for a positive neighborly relationship.
  2. Offer a Helping Hand: Keep an eye out for neighbors who might need assistance. Small acts of kindness can make a big difference, whether it’s helping carry groceries, shoveling snow, or lending a hand with a home improvement project.
  3. Create Opportunities to Connect: Host a neighborhood gathering, such as a block party or potluck dinner. These events provide a fun and relaxed atmosphere for neighbors to get to know each other better.
  4. Support Local Businesses: Patronize local businesses in your neighborhood. This not only strengthens the local economy but also fosters a sense of community pride.
  5. Spend Time Outdoors: As you mentioned, spending more time outside your home makes you more approachable. Sit on your front porch or take a stroll through the neighborhood. This makes it easier for neighbors to strike up a conversation and fosters a sense of community.
  6. Greet Neighbors Regularly: Make it a habit to greet your neighbors with a friendly “hello” or wave when you see them. If they seem open to a quick chat, ask how they’re doing. 
  7. Offer Compliments: Compliment your neighbors when you notice something positive about their homes or gardens. It’s a simple way to start a conversation and brighten someone’s day.
  8. Exchange Contact Information: Whenever you meet a friendly neighbor, exchange contact information. This makes it easier to arrange future get-togethers or ask for assistance when needed.
  9. Attend Neighborhood Events: Keep an eye out for local events, such as neighborhood picnics, garage sales, or community fairs. Participating in these gatherings provides excellent opportunities to meet new people.
  10. Utilize Shared Spaces: Spend time in shared spaces within your neighborhood, such as a community center, library, co-working space, or dog park. These environments are conducive to casual interactions.

Remind yourself that feeling connected feels good and is contagious. Experts agree that “social connectedness generates a positive feedback loop of social, emotional and physical well-being.” Do you have any good ideas on how to intentionally care? We’d love to hear from you! 

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